A simple map for safe, friendly topics.
Direct answer
The FORD method gives four topic areas for conversation: Family, Occupation, Recreation and Dreams. Ask open questions in each area, respect privacy and follow the other person's lead.
Sample questions
| Area | Question |
|---|---|
| Family | Do you have any plans with family or friends this month? |
| Occupation | What do you enjoy most about your work? |
| Recreation | What do you do to unwind? |
| Dreams | Where would you love to travel next? |
Cautions
- Skip family questions if you are unsure.
- Respect cultural norms.
- Do not interrogate.
Where Teyro fits
Teyro's The Art of Small Talk course turns this into short lessons you can play in a few minutes a day. It has 50 lessons, and you can start free.
The bottom line
A framework for ideas, not a script.
