"Network" sounds like something confident people do at events. In practice it is a handful of short, polite conversations. Here is how to do it from zero.
Direct answer
To network for a job, ask people for advice, not for a job. Message people one step away from you (alumni, former colleagues, friends of friends, people in roles you want), send a short note with one specific question, say thank you, and stay in touch. A conversation first often leads to a referral or a tip about a role before it is advertised.
Who to contact
- People you already know: relatives, teachers, past managers, classmates.
- Friends of friends: ask for a warm introduction.
- Alumni of your school or course.
- People in the job you want: on LinkedIn or in online groups.
- Communities: local meetups, industry groups, volunteer projects.
A message that works
Hi Sam, I'm a recent graduate hoping to move into customer support. I saw you made that move at Brightly. Could I ask one question: what helped you most in your first six months? Thanks either way.
Why it works:
- It is short and specific.
- It explains why you chose them.
- It asks for something easy to give.
- It does not ask for a job.
On LinkedIn
- Make sure your profile has a photo, a clear headline and a short summary. See LinkedIn profile tips.
- Add a short note to every connection request.
- Comment helpfully on posts from people in your field before you message them.
The conversation
- Thank them for their time.
- Ask about their path, what the work is really like, and what they would do in your place.
- Ask: "Is there anyone else you think I should talk to?"
- Do not ask for a job. If there is a role, they may offer.
Follow up
- Send a thank you the same day, mentioning something they said.
- Tell them if you acted on their advice. People love hearing that.
- Stay in touch every few months with a short update.
Common mistakes
- Sending the same copied message to dozens of strangers.
- Asking "do you have any jobs?" straight away.
- Writing long messages.
- Only reaching out when you need something.
Where Teyro fits
Teyro's How to Get Hired course covers networking when you know nobody, finding jobs that are never advertised, winning an internship, answering interview questions calmly and negotiating an offer. It is made for first jobs and next jobs, with short lessons and free to start.
The bottom line
Networking is asking for advice and saying thank you. Do a little every week and the doors open slowly.
