Hints and sighs instead of words.
Direct answer
Passive-aggressive behaviour expresses frustration indirectly through sarcasm, deliberate delays, backhanded compliments or the silent treatment. Respond by staying calm, describing the behaviour and its impact, and asking what is going on. Model direct communication.
Examples
- "Fine, whatever you want."
- Late work with no explanation.
- A pointed "reply all".
How to respond
- Do not respond in kind.
- Name what you observe: "I noticed the file arrived after the deadline."
- Ask: "Is something getting in the way?"
- Agree what will happen next.
If you do it
Say what is bothering you directly and kindly.
Where Teyro fits
Teyro's How to Manage Conflict at Work course turns this into short lessons you can play in a few minutes a day. It has 50 lessons, and you can start free.
The bottom line
Replace hints with clear words.
